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Vows and us

Hi,

how have you all been…….it has been 5 days since I wrote anything………….life was in full throttle……….I finally woke up early……….used alarms to wake me up…………attended classes…………went to Abhishek kirar’s marriage…………we hijacked the marriage………….it was a great fun…………we danced like crazy …………we went full retard……………Image actually this time we reached the point where the “BARAAT” was about to assemble early………..and there was another “BARAAT” already prepared to roll……………on 16th it all started early for me…………….went to a salon to get my hairs done………….then after a mild breakfast………….went out to attend my classes………….took my suit along………..spent a big part of my day in the institute………….then at 1800 hrs left the institute to meet the gang………….somehow they told me that Vasutosh was not taking any calls…………..I called him too………but yes he was not taking calls…………I did this while I was standing on the road near Abhishek tiwari’s room………….I didn’t knew where he lived…………..and as usual…………everyone was late…………….so I was a feeling like a display mannequin…………because people walking by were staring and thinking………..why would a person stand on an intersection with a garment bag and a backpack………..they were 40 minutes late…………….well Vasutosh was still not responding…………..so around 1845 we started to get ready and dress up……………so finally after everything was done………..we left for the venue………….the travel was a story in itself…………we were lost 2-3 times………..but we managed to be there before time…………….I was very hungry……….like cannibal hungry……….so was Akshay……………Rahul has fat deposit to survive for 3-4 months so I don’t about how he felt…………Abhishek tiwari is superior to Rahul in fat deposit department……………and finally we were there to roll……….DSCN2635 then the groom and his family arrived………..In India………..”BARAAT” is a convoy that goes to the brides place for ceremonies and to take her back to the grooms place after them………..in earlier times………..the brides and grooms were from different villages………..so the family members and near dear ones used to go in decorated bullock carts to the brides village to get her…………singing songs making merry along………… nowadays it has changed……….with time it has evolved too………….now the groom’s family and near dear ones assemble near the venue………..they go dancing and making merry till the venue………..Vasutosh could not make it to the marriage………….. then there were ceremonies when we reached the venue…………..and our fun began……….. DSCN2660 DSCN2669 DSCN2670 DSCN2671 DSCN2672 DSCN2676 DSCN2720 DSCN2721 DSCN2730 DSCN2733 DSCN2734 DSCN2740 DSCN2780

Always plan ahead

Hi,

 

Today was light……….fun and sober………..woke up late………..then did stretches……………they were relaxing…………went to office………it was light too…………against my experience and past…………went on break on time as planned…………..there was no discrepancy…………everything went almost perfect…………Akshay had a accident last night………….he was silent most of the time………….not mocking me………….that was different……….and I cracked a few on him………….and as far as the reaction…………..they were hilarious…………then there was Abhishek tiwari……………shopping online……………showing us a website on which there was a 50% discount on Trojans…………..he suggested that we should give a carton of those to Abhishek kirar…………and the best part would be the home delivery……….. 😀 anyhow we have postponed this gift for him as of now……………everyone is planning…………to go to his reception…………but few selected are invited to his marriage………and it feels good to be one of those………..ceremonies must have started at his house from today onward………………Indian marriages have a lot of ceremonies………and every community has some diversions……………..except the main ceremony where Vows are taken…………..and there too there are differences………..so there is always some difference in every marriage…………..isn’t that amazing………..you can get married multiple times and every-time there is something different………..well that’s about Indian marriages…………..but what i am confused about is what should I wear on the day of his marriage……………..and on the day of his reception……………I have a suit………….that i have only pulled on once………….and then there is traditional kurta and paijama……………I sent a message to Abhishek kirar- the groom to confirm about my dress………….anyhow he must be busy after all the ceremonies…………..lets leave it for later…………..I have to get up early tomorrow………….I have not attended class in days…………….there would be wrath of the titans on me tomorrow……………and then the usual crap at office…………tomorrow would be a busy day………..and I have to take a haircut too………..there is no good hairstylist near my home…………and I don’t want to look like a slob in front of his whole family……………and obviously my friends………..we all would be groomsmen…………we all will have to keep up-to that…………..well I would decide everything on the move tomorrow………….hope you never get into this sort of trouble………….always plan ahead………….by the way here is another group photograph of us…………Image

and by the stalker at the back is another friend of mine Ankit sharma…………he is altogether a different case……….I wish this friendship stays a lifetime………..and if you get time do listen to Amr diab…………awesome Arabic music………….love it!