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Vows and us

Hi,

how have you all been…….it has been 5 days since I wrote anything………….life was in full throttle……….I finally woke up early……….used alarms to wake me up…………attended classes…………went to Abhishek kirar’s marriage…………we hijacked the marriage………….it was a great fun…………we danced like crazy …………we went full retard……………Image actually this time we reached the point where the “BARAAT” was about to assemble early………..and there was another “BARAAT” already prepared to roll……………on 16th it all started early for me…………….went to a salon to get my hairs done………….then after a mild breakfast………….went out to attend my classes………….took my suit along………..spent a big part of my day in the institute………….then at 1800 hrs left the institute to meet the gang………….somehow they told me that Vasutosh was not taking any calls…………..I called him too………but yes he was not taking calls…………I did this while I was standing on the road near Abhishek tiwari’s room………….I didn’t knew where he lived…………..and as usual…………everyone was late…………….so I was a feeling like a display mannequin…………because people walking by were staring and thinking………..why would a person stand on an intersection with a garment bag and a backpack………..they were 40 minutes late…………….well Vasutosh was still not responding…………..so around 1845 we started to get ready and dress up……………so finally after everything was done………..we left for the venue………….the travel was a story in itself…………we were lost 2-3 times………..but we managed to be there before time…………….I was very hungry……….like cannibal hungry……….so was Akshay……………Rahul has fat deposit to survive for 3-4 months so I don’t about how he felt…………Abhishek tiwari is superior to Rahul in fat deposit department……………and finally we were there to roll……….DSCN2635 then the groom and his family arrived………..In India………..”BARAAT” is a convoy that goes to the brides place for ceremonies and to take her back to the grooms place after them………..in earlier times………..the brides and grooms were from different villages………..so the family members and near dear ones used to go in decorated bullock carts to the brides village to get her…………singing songs making merry along………… nowadays it has changed……….with time it has evolved too………….now the groom’s family and near dear ones assemble near the venue………..they go dancing and making merry till the venue………..Vasutosh could not make it to the marriage………….. then there were ceremonies when we reached the venue…………..and our fun began……….. DSCN2660 DSCN2669 DSCN2670 DSCN2671 DSCN2672 DSCN2676 DSCN2720 DSCN2721 DSCN2730 DSCN2733 DSCN2734 DSCN2740 DSCN2780

Booked for life

Hi,

Today is again a slow day……..took more on my schedule then I could have handled………again slept late last night and woke up early……..this lack of sleep is a cause of concern………….even if I lay down and shut my eyes………can’t shut my mind…………its running and not doing any good………..like a computer whose processor and RAM are occupied by unessential tools and software……….and causing a performance issue………….right now I am in my office……..yup its a Sunday……….but I am working because I wanted a day off to attend the wedding of Abhishek kirar…………my friend and colleague…………and its more about a group outing cum celebration……….because all of us would be going…….me Akshay, Rahul, Nitin, Vasutosh, Abhishek tiwari…….and of course Abhishek kirar himself……….we did not came to a common conjecture about what should be given to him as a wedding gift……….I was not able to decide anything myself……….anyhow…….we would all go and celebrate………..maybe we all would figure out a gift for him later………….I am looking forward for a bash…………Rahul and Akshay have started reading my blog………..but I told them not to read it………..because they might not like everything I write……….and who likes to share a journal with known people…………anonymity is always desirable to anyone writing a journal………….anyhow I think we all are going to look awesome…………everyone has a unique taste in dressing………….and it is developed by each one of us by past years……..and experiences…………I wish Abhishek kirar all the best for his wedding……….and a successful married life ahead………….I think soon others are going to be booked……..most probably Nitin or Akshay………..and I would like myself to be more regular at writing…………..I am always hopping days in between…………I think good time is ahead…

Delusion

Hi,

 

I have not done anything productive today till now……….I went to office……….to the same old crap zone……..but hey……they granted me leave today…………..so i would be going New Delhi to get a check up done………….and get a second opinion on the ailments that I am suffering from…………..I watched the season one of Big Bang theory………its an funny series…………I really liked Leonard………….he is humble and intelligent and considerate for people around him…………then there is Penny………..she’s not very learned…………but she’s confident and mature…………she copes well……….and is the type of person who is fun to be around……………..waiting for the construction to finish……….so that I would be devoting more time to sketching and painting……….as there would be lesser interference from my parents………..also hoping to end up in a better job soon………….as prospects here are dim………..and the behavior leads and colleagues have is ironically depressing………….they have still that childish mindset…………they don’t get along easily…………and even take the slightest joke as a stain against their self-esteem………..which I think is shallow…………I am not saying that I am perfect………..but yes……….I know how to take a joke…………and enjoy it………..I wish that everything just goes fine now………..and Yes I love my country……………but the atmosphere that is here…………..cultivated by the older generation and education system that sucks…………….and the mindsets of grown ups too…………depress me………..even today a educated girl………working in an multinational company would seek a groom that belongs to her community…………..rather than marrying the guy who she hangs out and loves to be with…………and the irony is they would cheat with each other but bear the pain of staying in the bond all their life………….because families are involved………I wish this mindset to change……..