ebay India sucks

Hi,

Its been some time I have really missed being here…

writing things….

things that happened to me….

experiences…

I recently started selling on ebay…

I was doing good….

I think I was….

but then…

the reality came to dawn…

frauds happen in eCommerce…

and I was the victim….

I sold many products…

some were stuck in transit…

as a result of which….

ebay refunded the money to buyers…….

now they have the products for free….

and I am the one who paid for it….

paid for people I don’t know…..

I would have preferred charity to that…….

because these people are not needy….

but greedy……

I suffered loss….

I called ebay….. I can’t even remember how many times….

I initiated chats….

I emailed them….

well ebay India do not responds to emails….

that’s for sure…

let me show you some chat transcripts…

let me show you how they treat me….

easy_shope 07:35:02
hi

Nazmeen A. 07:35:50
Hello,welcome to eBay Live Chat support. My name is Nazmeen.How may I assist you today?

Nazmeen A. 07:35:57
Hello,

easy_shope 07:36:13
this is regarding claim no. 774906

Nazmeen A. 07:36:37
Good afternoon

easy_shope 07:36:37
I was promised an email yesterday

easy_shope 07:36:43
good afternoon

Nazmeen A. 07:37:00
..ass

Nazmeen A. 07:37:02
Surely I will assist you with your concern.

now what would you all like to say about that….

and I pay them money…

for every product sold and transaction….

I registered complaints on many websites….

but it turned out that there was no response that I deemed fit….

I am at total loss…

I started selling online for making a profit…

but I lost more money then I made….

I would never recommend any friend of mine to sell online….

on any third party website…

ebay being a brand name could have done better….

every time I call them I get fake promises….

I need advise here…

what should I do next….

what could I do so that they would listen….

so that they are compelled to respond….

it turns out that they have hidden contact information in a very cleaver way…

no one can email them….

there are no email addresses available for management…

the link to escalate issues…. does not works….

http://pages.ebay.in/securitycentre/law_enforcement.html

it will reject your service request number as incorrect….

how? why?

if it is not working… why is it there even….

just to fool people….

I am just to angry with them….

But, I just want my hard earned money or my products back…

I have paid their fee….

I just expected a fair and secure place to trade the products…

which they boast of….

please let me know… what should be done here….

how should I proceed further with this….

ebay sucks 2 3

Me again

Hi,

I think you are doing great…

I have been over Neha recently…

now I am doing better…

and I realized that when someone has nothing to lose…

the pleasure in attempting things…

the independence is intoxicating…

it gives a euphoria…

a feeling I wish you all to experience someday…

I feel great in terms of mental peace…

I am able to focus again on things at hand…

I after a long time found myself reading again…

I was able to concentrate…

I don’t blame her for over-thinking….

It was me… I was too much involved mentally with her…

I have told her everything…  and that too… over and over again…

but she still refuses…

So its time to pack bags… and look out…

I have been busy lately… classes… office….

and her… it all kept me excessively busy…

I was hardly getting time to spend with myself….

And as a result… I was accepting everything…

without questioning… because I was not taking time to think…

now I will… I will think a little and then answer her…

maybe that would happen never….

if she wants to talk… she would approach…

I would not make the slightest move now….

I have a plan… and I have to work on that…

I have realized that whenever I get too involved…

I don’t think about other things… and I stop taking time out for myself…

I gave her books back…

Guess what…

Enough about her already….

I met my friends last weekend….

It was awesome….

They came to pick me up at 5 AM in the morning…

and we went on for a ride….

we shared… we smiled…. we enjoyed….

And the best part was…. I needed it… and it was a surprise…

I spent a whole day without talking to her….

I realized that she has been treating me badly….

When I compare the way a person treats or talks to me to the way she talks or treats me….

I realize I should not have entertained her so much….

It felt nice to be me again…

 

 

 

 

 

 

Aside

Almost lost

Hi,

 

Hope you all are doing great….

I am not feeling relaxed now a days….

my head seems to be spinning….. this feeling is different…..

Everything is going good…. I have a better job….I am learning too….

but Neha is getting into my mind…. at first it started casually….

but now the things are changing between us….

she makes me feel special…. she cooks for me sometimes….

we talk a lot… she sends good morning wishes….

I reply instantaneously…. I keep on waiting for her messages….

and when I keep on waiting… I am not able to concentrate on anything…..

and that’s a cause of concern for me….

she says that I should ignore her…. I told her to do it for me….

she ignored me yesterday…. not a single message…. no good morning wish….

I kept on waiting… I was not feeling good about it…. but I did not took a step forward and contacted her….

in the night around 2000… I got a text from her… asking me about how I was…..

I replied that I am fine and asked her how she was….

By this time I was a little drunk…. I had some beer….

after some time she said I am behaving differently….. and what is it…..

I did not replied for some time…… then she sent another message….

I asked her to describe her feelings when she did not receive a reply…..

she said she felt bad… I told her that’s how I feel when she does not replies to my messages….

and then after some time the situation kept getting worse…..

now she is not sending me any messages at all…..

and yup I miss her…. miss her real bad….

wish I could go back in time and change this….

I wish it to be resolved…. and be back on track….

It was going great… It was going smooth…..

and now these jerks are making me tense…. I feel addicted….

and the worst part is… it seems that i am the one who is doing all the work…..

I get all worked up… physically… mentally…

no peace of mind is left….. and I don’t want mood swings to hamper my career and personal relations….

she keeps on showing tantrums and fits… she is mostly obtuse of my views….. I have to keep on asking again and again…..

and she still doesn’t replies…. or replies well….. I feel taken for granted…..

and that is what is hurting me……

but I want this misunderstanding to be cleared….

and I would have to leave my ego behind for that…..

and I did exactly the same… I kept on asking till she did not opened up…..

finally she said she needs some space….

I think we should take a break…

she is still in touch with her ex….

and I feel insecure…. and I have to overcome that too….

I want to live free….. but this situation is making me worked out mentally…..

there is a lot going on in my life right now…. and I am loosing focus on what to keep and what to discard…

hope I could get any medicine for focus…..

she is driving me crazy….

and this is the worst feeling I have got… in years….

and I want to get over with it desperately…..

its ruining me I think…. I am not myself anymore….

but I want her too… she has done good for me in the past….

what should I do… leave her and move on….

or keep on working to get this working in hope of a better tomorrow with her….

 

Bouncing Back

Hi,

Today too I woke up late……….my body cycle has changed………..and it is getting harder to bounce back to the normal routine and body cycle………….moreover there had been multiple instances of fever and cold happening over the past few months…………I want to get over these health issues……………I am now eating healthy diet……………and have started mild exercises too…………today I had an Interview………but i missed it……..as I was late and then the venue was around 45 minutes bus ride away………….anyhow…….I made the day count…….as I studied at home………..did a lot of introspection…………to formulate a plan for my career growth…………and yes………played a lot of video game too………..and in the end………I made the blog for Abhishek Kirar……………live………..I think he liked it……….rest I would get to know…..when I would meet him face to face………to understand better………….and yes we can always customize it as he likes………..it would do him good………I think……….as he will get more audience…………he will be able to work harder……….and better………..so that was my day……….soon I would share or rather confess…………my stupidity……….that I did for Upasana…………wasting my feelings for her……….when she never cared………….I would share the emails I saved in my drafts that were meant for her…………..but I was never able to send them………..because I was never able to make up my mind about her…………….there was always a twitching at the back of my head……..that there was something wrong about her………..I just need one girl to love and be with all my life…………..and she failed badly……..I was hurt at first……….but now I am bouncing back to my awesome self………..I guess I am boasting about myself……….but hey……….we all are awesome………..in one way or another………..and hey the blogs address is http://abbycaprediem.wordpress.com/………..

Aside

Medical Suffering

Hi,

Today I woke up early…………because I had to go see a doctor………..well the health care facilities are not very good in India………….for Indians………..you have to pay a hefty amount to doctors…………and then the tests…………….the private labs charge way too much………………so I left for New Delhi………..its around 50 55 kilometers from my home………….we used to live there earlier so my parents have faith on the doctors there………..I am on medications……….drug quantity is way over the prescribed limit……….I googled about every single drug i have been taking………..and the side effect was clots in my right eye……….I thought that its not good to go blind……….so I needed a second consultation from another doctor……….there is this armed force medical college………In India…………it is the best institute of medical……….according to me………because they take candidates that are officer material………no doubt that the enterence-exam is very tough……..so there is this clinic in New Delhi……….where they sit and examine patients as a charitable cause………and its the best consultation a poor person can get………..at minimum amount of money………..so I traveled………but there is a strict timeline associated………..and I missed it…………but I had to take a second opinion from another doctor…….so I visited this other clinic………the doctor though friendly straight away referred me to the hospital for tests and consultation of an MD………I went there………..the hospital is a government hospital…………so the services were as usual………..delayed and not very good………….the clerical level staff is the real bitch………….they are just not willing to listen……….and understand………..then the asshole physicians that examine you and refer to the specialists………..they are like trading agents………..he asked me what problem I would like to show…………my eye or my allergic cough…………I thought for a second and thought eye is more important……….then comes the running around from floor to floor…………room to room for examinations…………it took around 4 hours to get my eyes examined………..they just checked visibility…………where they make you read a board with alphabets…………..and some medicines………..these facilities could have been good if there are no scams that these son of bitches do…………..Its hard to think……..how much a person could go greedy…………but at present………….Medical facilities for common man suck……….

Truth and Fiction

Hi,

I have realized that growth is not instantaneous, neither is perfection attained in a jiffy….so I got to plan and then take small steps…….baby steps……..but consistency is required………..and these steps would refine me…….day by day…..refine everything I do…….I want to be rich enough……….that before buying anything that I like………I don’t need to think about paying for it……..I would just have to point my finger……..and the thing would be mine………..but yes, I know for that I need to do things that I have not done before……….I have to work hard, smart, and consistency would be the key………let’s see how far I reach…….I am now feeling well……emotionally…….on Friday…..when we were having a blast in the office………Upasana was sitting on the floor……..and let me tell you she turned out to be a bitch………I respect women……..but this tag is justified for her………..after joining this company……..she broke up with her boyfriend……….was spending time with an Idiot…………maybe fucking around…….who knows……..I was devastated thinking about her……..now she has broke up with that guy……..and on Friday……though we are not talking…….handed me her cell phone to take a picture of her……..with friends……..and boom……..the phone rang………and it was her old boyfriend………….calling her at 6 in the morning……….what does that mean………”She’s a gold digging bitch”……she hooks up with rich assholes……….a person from a not very wealthy family would not suffice her………so I felt a sudden relief in my heart and my mind………and yes both look pathetic……..;)………..god has blessed me much more then the Idiots she is with………..riches would come with time…….no regrets………I will earn………and be self made………rather than a person………who took money from parents to live and succeed in life……..anyhow…….I am happy today………having a good time………listening to a classic………”Pukarta Chala HU Main”…….here are the lyrics………

(Pukarta chala hu mai
 Gali gali bahar ki
 Bas ek chhaanw zulf ki
 Bas ek nigaah pyaar ki) - (2)
 Pukarta chala hu mai

 Ye dillagi ye shokhiya salam ki
 Yahi to baat ho rahi hai kaam ki
 Koi to mood ke dekh lega is taraf
 Koi nazar to hogi mere naam ki
 Pukarta chala hu mai
 Gali gali bahar ki
 Bas ek chhanw zulf ki
 Bas ek nigah pyaar ki
 Pukarta chala hu mai

 Suni meri sada to kis yakin se
 Ghata utar ke aa gayi zameen pe
 Rahi yahi lagan to ai dil-e-jawa
 Asar bhi ho rahega ek haseen pe
 Pukarta chala hu mai
 Gali gali bahar ki
 Bas ek chhanw zulf ki
 Bas ek nigah pyaar ki
 Pukarta chala hu mai 

;)........keep humming...........enjoy!